MY TROUBLE IS OTHERS OPPORTUNITY

Life in a human form is a blessing and the Creator’s priceless gift. Life is to celebrate every moment within ‘me’ by being joyful and outside me’ by sharing and caring with others; the mantra to live life simple and blissful.

Since birth the most expensive real estate of the body our Brain is involved in everything you do. No one introduces us of being in possession of a vital organ that will be responsible for the whole lot of me; thinking, judgement, feelings, personality, character, actions and everything about’ Who Am I. Something each one should have taken responsibility but others influenced it largely with the worldly Gyan and many made it their commercial opportunity.

Over the years we adopted knowing a lot of things on matters outside our body but matters of maintaining and managing our life within our body got neglected. Most things of our body we do not get to use them right, poorly or not at all. You have heard the saying man/women behind the machine is important, it is time each one accepts all miseries, ailments, failures, problems and conditions upon us are those that have been created, conceived, invited, and accepted by the ‘Me’. Individuals need to stop their manipulations of conveniently finding someone/something to blame others for all above conditions. Taking complete responsibility of the mess you are is a beginning of many wellbeing. Most successful people dominate the miserable list and their problems are the other persons business.

We are not taking instructions from our mind nor giving it the attention our life deserves. A trend to outsource services to save one’s own time and energy is resulting in blunders to be realised later. The food we eat becomes part of our body so it is important we pay attention to what to eat, when to eat, how much to eat. Sadly the ‘me” fails to first be in gratitude for this fine chemical factory inside us and also takes our body mechanism for granted. To please our pleasures, desires and enjoyment over indulgence in food and drinks is harmful to the body including the brain. We give no attention unable to make correction and surrender to outsource help to tell us what to eat and what not.

There is also the unsolicited food for thoughts that is served upon us, majorly advises from people who never used it themselves, gossip, lies and bad mouthing. An untrained mind cannot chew and digest this feed and fails to manage it resulting in self-inflicted misery A common trait among humans is taking things personally and being possessive. Living in past ugly memories people frequently emit emotions unpleasant for self and others around us.

We started to grasp everything worldly and lost how to use thoughts and emotions for our well-being. Our failure is largely attributed to makers of the education policy formulating an educational system designed to develop our intelligence by providing information, knowledge from external agencies, schools, universities, teachers and textbooks. This deprives an individual to develop an intellect through a personal effort exercising the faculty of questioning, thinking and reasoning. To bring excellence in you, the teachers in society did not mentor to compete with the self but compete to fail others. Now a whole lot of us especially the best of minds use education, carriers, businesses, our social life, the political arenas in failing the other and missing out to a world of opportunity working together for the wellbeing.

Being with yourself in a better state of mind can bring the best about you.