UNDERSTANDING Deserves More Attention
- DAVINDER SINGH CHOWDHRY
- May 10
- 2 min read
Understanding is not merely taught information. True understanding develops when the learner actively processes, applies, and connects that information through personal experience.
One of the most difficult things in life is to know yourself. “There is only one corner of the universe you can be certain of improving, and that’s your own self.” The self contributes largely in dealing with self-understanding, understanding-others and understanding the Creator. Understanding them well acts as life’s ultimate compass.
For a fact people understand only to their level of understanding.
Working on one’s understanding trains the mind to eliminate guess work, cut through stress and prevent conflicts. By turning raw information into insight, it empowers you to make smarter decisions, build deeper relationships, and navigate challenges with calm confidence.
Understanding will always activate good choices and actions. For example, happiness will never come to those who fail to understand what they already have and everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves.
Beautiful people do not just happen. You realise this better after understanding those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. Such people develop an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern.
Be the one who nurtures and builds. With one’s understanding and a forgiving heart you look for the best in people, leaving people better than you found them. It is good understanding of others that helps you keep true friendship. You listen compassionately and creatively to the hidden silences. Often secrets are not revealed in words, they lie concealed in the silence between words or in the depth of what remains unsaid between two people. One can say if you know the ‘why', you can live any ‘how.
Understanding people certainly impacts your ability to communicate with others. Do not be disturbed at being misunderstood; rather, be disturbed at not being understanding.
How can one understand unless one is made to understand. Well scriptures urge individuals to look inward, distinguishing the true, eternal soul from the temporary physical body and ego. The wise see the same Supreme Self dwelling equally in all beings—whether it is a wise person, an animal, or an outcast. This vision of oneness is the basis for compassion and equal regard.
Understanding God involves moving from a limited intellectual view to experiencing the Divine's boundless, omnipresent, and loving nature. Gurbani says ,,,,, Jio sahib raakhae tio rahae es lobhee kaa jeeo tal palae…. “As our lord and master keeps us, so do we exist. The soul of this greedy person is tossed this way and that. Without the oil, how can the lamp be lit. Let the reading of the prayer book be your lamp and the fear of God be the wick for the lamp of this body. Light this lamp with the understanding of truth. Use this oil to light the lamp. Light it and meet your Master….. SGGS Ang26.
Those who lose faith have no understanding and suffer in pain. A verse in Gurbani Ang33 says it all ………
“To act without understanding is to lose the treasure of this human life”.




Very well articulated